你不知道的事 =）Piano

你不知道的事，

我知道，

我知道的事，

你不知道，

我还是喜欢，

你不知道的事

王力宏 =）

My Memory 回忆 Piano

回忆，

可以是痛苦，

可以是甜蜜。

从开始到现在，

只想保留美好的回忆 =）

When we face hardship in our lives..

When we face hardship in our lives,

even moments of injustice, 

we must be aware that God and "a huge crowd of witnesses"

(Hebrew 12:1-3) are watching us.

We remember this truth not because

we fear failure,

but because it encourages us to press on 

in the power of Holi Spirit.

He allows us to walk through any place in life in a manner

worth of the cross.

(Ephesians 4:1, Thessalonians 2:10-12)

(Taken from Our Daily Journey )

In the same way, 

let your good deeds shine out for all to see,

so that everyone will praise 

your heavenly Father.

Matthew 5 : 16

Be strong, to me =) 

回忆的痛

最痛的

不是离别

而是

离别后的回忆。

三年的大学生活接近尾声了。。。

新的一个生活阶段就将开始。。。

会想念这三年里的欢乐时光，

告诉自己活得很好，

也学习更坚强面对未来。

希望我能让自己

聚集更多勇气

克服未来的挑战 =) 

陪伴 =）

“陪伴，就是不管你需不需要，我一直都在。”

最怕你不要我在，更怕你当我不存在。
I am here when you need me and even if you don’t.
Owen Yap ( 叶剑锋 )

好希望有一个知心知己的朋友，

也希望成为他/她知心知己的朋友 =）

平安 =）

约翰福音 14:27

Chinese Contemporary Bible (CCB)

27 我把平安留给你们，把我的平安赐给你们，

我赐给你们的平安不像世人给的平安。

你们心里不要忧愁，也不要害怕。

平安 pínɡ ān

①心境平静安宁：人无智愚，莫不有趋舍；恬淡平安，莫不知祸福之所由来。
②没有危险或不幸；平稳安全：平安无事｜祝君一路平安｜马上相逢无纸笔，凭君传语报平安。

希望平安每天跟随你，

让自己活得更有意义，

简朴地生活吧！　＝）

现代人的迷失。。。

我们有越来越高的建筑，

但是有越来越低的EQ;

有更广阔的高速公路，

但是有更狭窄的视野;

我们花费得更多，

但拥有得更少；

我们买的更多，

但享受的更少；

我们可以登陆月球回来，

但是却没有时间拜访隔壁的邻居；

我们可以征服外太空；

但是却不能掌控内心世界；

我们可以分裂原子核，

但是却无法挪去心中的偏见.

孙越《现代人的迷失》

Are you a Man or Boy =) I want a Man =)

When I was in my early twenties, if a guy acted aloof, called back only sometimes and showed minimal interest, I would get hooked. You could say I was addicted to the bad boy/ unavailable boy/ player. I was drawn to what psychotherapist, Ken Page terms as “attractions of deprivation” – when we are drawn to people who embody the worst emotional characteristics of our parents. Basically, the theory explains that we are attracted to people who can wound us the same way we were wounded in our childhood, as our psyche tries to recreate the past void and save us by changing its ending.

“The child in us believes that if the original perpetrators — or their current replacements — finally change their minds, apologize, or make up for that terrible rupture of trust, we can escape from our prison of unworthiness. Our conscious self is drawn to the positive qualities we yearn for, but our unconscious draws us to the qualities which hurt us the most as children.”  

So games used to work on me because 1) I had unresolved daddy issues and 2) At the tender age of 20, I was trying to figure out who I was and to top it off, I was ridden with insecurity and a low sense of self-worth.

But somewhere in between the passing of a decade, something changed.

I learned to love myself.  I became independent, confident, and started to value my self-worth. I went through hardships and heartbreaks and picked myself back up which built my strength and courage. Instead of relying on beauty as my source of empowerment, I focused on basing my empowerment on my intelligence, successes, values, contributions to the world and how I helped others. In a sense, I finally grew up. I went from being a girl to becoming a woman. And as a woman, you are attracted to very different things than you are as a girl.

A girl is attracted to boys. A woman is attracted to men. Now, this has nothing to do with the actual age of a person. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life. In fact, some people regardless of their age, will never really grow up.

If you are a girl (lack independence, are ruled by insecurity, lack self-respect, throw tantrums, have princess syndrome, don’t have strong values or boundaries and can’t hold yourself on your own) then expect that you will attract only boys. However, if you are a woman (independent, ambitious, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn’t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a man. And if you can’t spot the difference just yet, here are some pointers.

1. A man knows what he wants, and goes for it. A boy may have somewhat of an idea, but not really. He doesn’t think too much about it, and even if he does, doesn’t exert much effort to get it. A boy is passive, a man is assertive.

2. A man plans for his future and is working towards building a foundation and infrastructure in order to have a family (at some point in his life).  A boy lives only in the moment and his plans are mostly around which bar he’s going to hit up on the weekend.

3. A man looks for a woman with intelligence, who is supportive, grounded and encompasses a shared set of values when choosing a partner. A boy cares mostly only for girls who are hot, wild and exciting.

4. A man knows a good woman when he meets one and will take initiative to get to know her. A boy may make an attempt if you’re lucky, but gives up before ever really trying.

5. A man has the courage to have uncomfortable conversations. He is honest with his intentions and lets people know where they stand. A boy avoids. He ignores confrontation or any serious talks about feelings. Instead of dealing with a situation, he runs away from it or creates drama or excuses to mask the fact he’s not that into you or a relationship.

6. A man knows when to invest in a woman and jump in with two feet. A boy is always “testing” – he doesn’t fully commit because he never knows if he is quite ready. But the truth is, because he is a boy, regardless who he meets, he will never be ready due to the stage of life he has been in.

7. A man knows how to have a good time and be social, but is often busy making strides in his career and building his life. A boy gets crunk with his buddies at the bar every weekend.

8. A man takes the time to reflect on the type of man he wants to be, the example he wants to leave and the vision for his life. He has put thought into his values. A boy has not established his moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent.

9. A man has integrity. He means what he says, and says what he means. He has followed through and actions his promises. And if he can’t he has the guts to tell you why. A boy makes promises but doesn’t follow through.

10. A man is afraid of rejection but will put himself out there anyway. A boy is afraid of rejection and acts passive so that his pride and ego won’t ever get too banged up.

Now, a lot of these differences require taking the time to know someone to figure out if the apple of your eye is indeed a man, or a mere boy. However, one of the quickest filters that you can notice from the beginning is this:

11. A boy plays games. A man doesn’t.

*To clarify, when I’m referring to “games” I mean mind games

Taken from amyfabulous.com

Let It Fade - Jeremy Camp

Have you been walking on a surface that's uncertain?

Have you helped yourself to everything that's empty? yeah!

You can't live it's way too long.

There's more than this, more than this.

Have you been standing on your own feet too long?

Have you been looking for a place where you belong?

You can rest, you will find rest.

You can rest, you will find rest.

Let this old life crumble, let it fade.

Let this new life offered be your saving grace.

Let this old life crumble, let it fade, let it fade.

Have you been holding on to what this world has offered?

Have you been giving in to all these masquerades?

It will be gone, forever gone.

It will be gone, it will be gone

Let this old life crumble, let it fade.

Let this new life offered be your saving grace.

Let this old life crumble, let it fade, let it fade.

Let it fade.

Are you carrying the weight too much?, are you running from the call?

Let it fade, Oh yeah.

You can rest, you will find rest.

You can rest you will find rest.

Let this old life crumble, let it fade.

Let this new life offered be your saving grace.

Let this old life crumble, let it fade, let it fade.

Let this old life crumble, let it fade.

Have you been standing on your own feet too long?

Have you been looking for a place where you belong?

Sing by Jeremy Camp

We as human always worrying and anxious 

about the past and unforeseen future...

When we believed Jesus died for our sins on that cross,

we are being renewed.

Let the our old life crumble, let it fade,

you will find rest because of His saving grace upon you..

Don't give up in loving, seeking and following Him,

don't run from the call,

His love for you more than you know.

Just continue to move on and carry the light of Jesus 

in your everyday life =) 

In everything give thanks, 

He will provide and reward of eternal life to you

because you love Him and follow Him =) 

“太阳不会因为你的失意，明天不再升起；

月亮不会因为你的抱怨，今晚不再降落。”

只要你心中有个太阳，月会亮，心不会凉。

The sun shines on the moon. Does it shine in your heart?

Owen Yap ( 叶剑锋 )

只要有心，

就不怕迟。

凡事有目标和梦想，

才有动力去完成。 =）

蓝色 =）

海是蓝色的。。

天空也是蓝色的。。

对我而言，

蓝色真的很美，

自然美 =）

每一种颜色都有它的特点。
无论自己喜欢什么颜色，
只要是喜欢，
不必改变。
因为颜色也代表着你的特点，
我就是喜欢蓝色！XD

如果我是鱼你是水，

我可以游进你心里吗？=) 

如果你願意一層一層一層的剝開我的心

你會發現 你會訝異

你是我 最壓抑 最深處的秘密

如果你願意一層一層一層的剝開我的心

你會鼻酸 你會流淚

只要你能 聽到我 看到我的全心全意

珍惜，爱惜和懂得保护你的人，

千万别错过！

因为在当今的社会状态，

爱心，

真的太难得到了。。。

只要你愿意去了解一个人的全心全意，

你会相信，

他人的真心，

就是珍惜你的理由。

等待。。。

等待的时间越长对于

你想要的东西

你越会欣赏它的时候

是当你得到它

因为任何值得拥有的，

绝对值得等待　＝）

现在有等待着，期望着

任何的人，事，物吗？　＝）

值得等待的东西，

会是最好的，

也许是适而可止，

但总好过后悔莫及。

他会给你最好的，

虽然过程中荆棘密布，

但是，

你会感慨等待的过后，

会有更值得拥有的一切。　=）

希伯来书 13:5

Chinese Contemporary Bible (CCB)

5 不要贪爱钱财，要对自己拥有的知足，因为上帝说过：

“我永不撇下你，也不离弃你。”

羡慕有经济能力的人，

但是

不应该维持这种态度。

有耕耘才有收获。。。

要知足才能常乐。。。

要懂得依靠，

才会更富有。　

GOD Loves you and Cares You =）

听听别人口中的自己， 这比看大片还刺激 =)

听听别人口中的自己，


这比看大片还刺激 ...

你会发现你什么都没做，

但已经演了好多版本的，

爱情片 ，宫斗片， 动作片， 悬疑片， 一个片子比一个片子丰富， 都是大角色！


有时候，

沉默也是一种仪态，

聆听着别人说关于自己的故事，

学习着，领悟着

自己的状态让自己有

骄傲的时候，也有进步的空间。


转眼间过了一年又一年。。。

时间可以改变一个人的性格和状态。

只要你肯放手去体验和尝试独立生活，

未来的路你就有着坚强的意识去面对。


让别人说说自己的故事，

很有意思　＝）

我們做個跟對像差不多的朋友吧? =)

 兩個可能彼此相愛、喜歡的人，

但是又不屬於友情、愛情、親情中的任何一種。

彼此不能成為男女朋友，

只能做個特別的朋友。

也許是為了朋友之間的義氣，

不能歸屬；

也許是為了顧及家人的意見，

不能歸位；

也許是為了自己的前程，

不能承諾。

也許是相遇太早，

還不懂得珍惜對方；

也許是相遇太晚，

彼此身邊已經有了另一個人；

也許是回頭太遲，

對方已不再等待；

也許彼此在捉摸對方的心，

而遲遲無法跨出界線……

不過即使沒在一起，

彼此仍能找到塌實的感覺，

仍然會保持不隸屬任何一種感情的關係。

但是彼此心底清楚

對這個人，

你比朋友還多了一份關心。

因為有了彼此，

心裡總是被幸福塞的滿滿的。

即使不能彼此名正言順的牽著手逛街，

還是可以做無所不談的朋友。

彼此有喜歡的人，

口頭上會說不吃醋，

心裡卻會覺得酸酸的。

對方遇到困難時，

會盡全力伸出援助之手，

不會計較誰又欠了誰。

對方生病了，

會繳盡腦汁找藥方，

恨不得變成護士陪伴在身旁。

每個人這輩子，

心中都有過這麼一個特別的朋友，

很矛盾的行為。

一開始可能不甘心只做朋友的，

但久了突然發現這樣最好，

寧願這樣關心對方的心情，

總好過彼此生活在一起受傷害。

做不成男女朋友，

當個特別的朋友，

有什麼不好呢?

你心中的這個特別朋友...是誰呢?

很多的感情都敗在了現實的面前，

友情可以演變成為愛情，

愛情最終進化成為親情，

彼此就將友情直接進步到親情……

人生不過百年，

能牽手的時候請別只是肩並肩，

能擁抱的時候請別只是手牽手，

能在一起的時候請別輕易分開，

能成為紅顏知己請別刻意離開。

（资料来源：面子书）