Monday, May 09, 2022

你是我很珍惜的人,谢谢你。

We started our first WhatsApp message on 11/6/2017.... about transportation. hahaha!

我要把我对你说过的生日祝福记录下来,哪怕有一天我忘了,我可以把回忆留在这里。:')

<24/4/2018>
Happy Birthday my dear ❤ today is the day u turn 29 years old 🙊😂 is so happy to see u grow so much within this few years.. You grow stronger,  more independent, more caring and loving to the people around you. The most importantly is you also serve God more. God never leave u, he always send angels to guide u,  protect u and bless u. 

I'm also happy that we can grow together and closer to each other. In times of struggles, always support each other and pray for each other. Thanks for this 👩❤👩sister's love. 

I pray that this year, God will bless u abundantly because you have choose to honor Him n serve Him more. The sacrifices you make there will be reward and bring a lot of joy n fruitfulness. 

Love u deep deep. 😘

Wish u good health n stay pretty!! 😘 Happy Happy Happy Birthday!! 🎂🍰🍮🍭🍬🍫🥧🍝🍙🍘🍧🍲🍱🍥🍢🥦😆


<24/4/2019>
Dear, happy 30th years old. Hahahaha!!

You finally step into 30 years old liao, nvm, still look very pretty ya ^^

You make me to think back.. how long we have known each other n how come we are so close to each other. Hahahahaha.

Think Think Think…..

我觉得我们的关系非比寻常。哈哈哈!

因为我们相遇是一种缘分,相识也是个很不容易的过程。打从你先开始要更进一步的认识我,我们就有了酸甜苦辣的过程,我也被你深深的打动了。Oh no, 好像讲到在拍拖这样。哈哈哈!

我觉得其实我们俩应该是蛮难相处的哦,因为我们都是蛮会执着的人,在某些方面啦。哈哈。但是因为有了 God 我们变得不一样的去对待对方。有很多包容,体谅还有无私地爱护对方,照顾对方。有时候我还真的忘了你是大过我的叻!忘了你是我的姐姐~ 哈哈哈!

你真的是我的blessings o. From simple friendship until a sister love… 我记得..你的行动都常感动我,touch my heart。不懂是不是为了我,但是,我是有被感动的。就想跟你share 两件事。。。

第一件事,midvalley 之旅,我坐着火车 otw 去了,收到你的讯息说下着midvalley,我真的有被吓到又不好意思。。。感觉你有担心我。哈哈哈!然后,最后还一起吃了晚餐等我一起然后载我回。真的辛苦了。我是有听到 Calvin说midvalley没东西逛的。。大家都很累了。。我觉得不懂你是不是担心我。。 but 真的。。我觉得这种牺牲和关心是无法被取代的,真的有被感动。

第二件事,one billion café yamcha with the youth. 我离开了你们后,也没有怎么样地去安排怎么样回家,我也准备要take grab 的,因为朋友不方便载我回。当我收到你的讯息说你还在和他们喝茶,我又被吓到了,是不是我又让你操心了,因为我记得你很累的,你需要回家休息。我又来觉得不懂你是不是担心我。。 所以 again。。我觉得这种牺牲和关心是无法弥补的,真的很感动。

每次看见你筋疲力尽,衷心advise你真的要开始take care你自己。。。你不可以学我,那么不顾自己的。你不一样,你有身负重任,不要忽略自己的健康。哈哈哈哈。我有理由是我年轻过你,我还可以,所以你不一样,不可以不听啊。哈哈哈。

30 years liao is a BIG number lor. Hahaha! XD (forgive me I keep on want to mention to remind u, u need to be more open liao) I pray to God that u can always get enough rest and blessings in your life. You always put God first and faithful serving in church. Not easy to commit but this is a good example for many one to follow in future. And faster get a partner can take care u lor XD I pray also for both of us can continue to stand firm in our faith in God. When we face the struggles in life, we remember God n always encourage each other, even share the burden together. I may have limited resources to bless people nowadays... but I put priority on my time and service to the person I care very much. 习惯了每天跟你讯息。。。。I borrow u my ears also can. HAHAHA.

I hardly call people dear. HAHAHA. Bcs I will shy and only mean it to those I really care from the heart. Haha. I don’t know how long we can walk together here.. but in God, we walk together forever. Chinese saying 友谊万岁 so meaningful. Hahaha! 

Thank God for you in my life. Because you appear, we can continue to shine together 😊 Today is your birth-day! love u n hugs !


<24/4/2020>
Happy Birthday my dearest friend n sister in Christ! 生日蒙恩!😇 During mco, cannot celebrate together.. Nvm.. Wait I can see u I will see u. Enjoy the blessings from everyone who matters you in your life. ❤️



<24/4/2021>
Hello 闺蜜,

一个是乌“龟”,一个“蜜”蜂,就形成了闺蜜。先感谢你的厚爱,然后祝你身体健康,万事如意,笑口常开,青春美丽。😂

生日快乐,生日蒙恩。💐😎

甜蜜的话就留在心啦。💙❤️
+ a birthday video on your FB


<24/4/2022>
Ah Dear
Happy Birthday to you. 生日快乐!

This Year 2022 officially 33 years old liao lo!! Hahahah.

谢谢你的出现还是让我的生命里得到了很多的力量。

感恩神让我们的友谊一直都在。

今年你终于可以享受幸福了!真的真的很替你开心。♥️

今年一定要好好地享受被人照顾了哦!haha!

还有,结婚是好事来的。一步一步来哦。☺️

谢谢你我永远的闺蜜。





Sunday, May 17, 2020

生活就像一所学校

“生活就像一所学校,不是每一堂课你都喜欢,但偏偏不能逃课。生活中你所做的每一件事都是随堂测验,遇见的每一个人都在给你上课。”

人生没有满分,你只能努力尽本分。感谢生命中出现的每一个人,让你成为了更好的人。

People are sent into our lives to teach us things that we need to learn about ourselves. Thank you, teachers.

#谢谢生命中遇见的每一位老师
From Owen Yap

Thursday, April 30, 2020

我 惧 怕 的 时 候 When I am afraid


我 惧 怕 的 时 候 要 倚 靠 你。
诗篇 56:3 (CUVS)


When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.
Psalm 56:3 (NIV)

我们都有选择的权力。选择继续依靠自己,或者依靠上帝,并交托给祂引导你的生活。
了解我的生活圈子的朋友都说我好像离不开神,为什么,因为我渐渐经历人的承诺往往都不会是100%实现或者说着大家可以一起活到天荒地老的话。就算你在危险处境时,都是不能担保他/她能第一时间救到你,那么这时候你还会选择相信自去等待他人还是呼求神呢?

我说,当呼求神,神就会把合适的人带到你的身边鼓励你,帮助你,在你需要的时候,以祷告把彼此的关系更拉近依靠神。要说信心,谈何容易,只有行动和祷告证明你的见证。

Wednesday, April 29, 2020

God knows... 上帝是无所不知。。。

有时候遇到挫折就会想放弃,因为觉得何苦为难自己要受苦受气,这毕竟是人的弱点。
但是,有时候不知道哪来的勇气会叫自己要坚持走下去。同时祷告相信上帝的安排是好的,保持积极的心情过日子,把祂的好和祝福带给更多人。

Saturday, April 25, 2020

看清楚了

“常常就是非得要经过一些挫折,你才能够发现谁的虚假,但同时也终于明白谁对自己最真心。有些事情的发生,其实为了帮助我们看清楚一些人,不要再为不值得的人付出、不要再为不值得的事伤心。成长很疼,但它成就你的人生。”
生活中真正的正能量,就是看清真相。 痛只是一个过程,助你成为更好的“仁”。
Grow through what you go through. You see the truth.
Owen Yap ( 叶剑锋 )

Wednesday, April 22, 2020

行动管制令后,可以来一杯不一样的Ribena 😍

【Ribena 的创意高级喝法大公开】
 Credit to PenangHoliao
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Tuesday, April 21, 2020

Trusting God is a Decision...


foot step on sand during daytime


Trusting God is a decision we must make, just like any other decision in life. We choose what we eat, we choose what to wear, and we can choose to trust God, too! When we choose to trust God, there is peace that settles in our hearts. There are blessings in store for us when we put our trust in Him.

“Blessed is the man who makes the Lord his trust...” (Psalm 40:4). #TrustGod


相信上帝是我们需要作出的决定,就像人生中的任何其他决定一样。 我们选择吃什么,选择穿什么,也可以选择相信上帝! 当我们选择信靠上帝的时候,我们心中就有平安。 当我们相信他的时候,我们就有祝福存在。



诗篇 40:4

信靠耶和华的人有福了!
他们不随从骄傲自大、信靠假神的人。


信心成长的一个旅途的感触.... =) 


Thursday, May 15, 2014

坚强的人生 =)

“不要过分依赖友谊,或者花很多心思去猜度身边的人对你是否真心,一个人生活不会死,体会孤单是成长的必修课,谁都要经历。人生路漫漫,如果有一段实在没人陪你热闹同行,你要对踽踽独行的自己说,走过这段就好,前方有更好的风景和更好的人等着。”
走过这段路,希望知道自己哪里不对路。腳下每一步,都会是一种自我进步。


The hardest walk is walking alone, but it is also the strongest.

Sunday, February 09, 2014

Thank you for having me in your life!

“爱我或者恨我,我都无所谓。爱我,我在你心里;恨我,我在你脑海。”

爱我的人谢谢你,可喜的是,我对你是如此地重要;恨我的人请继续,可惜的是,你对我而言一点也不重要。

'Love me or hate me, both are in my favor…If you love me, I'll always be in your heart…If 
you hate me, I'll always be in your mind.' Thank you very much for having me in your life.


Owen Yap ( 叶剑锋 )

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Prayer for today...

Father, no matter what mistakes I've made yesterday, today, or tomorrow help me be 
convinced that nothing can ever separate me from Your love. 

"Death can't, and life can't. The angels can't, and the demons can't. My fears for today, my 
worries about tomorrow, and even the powers of hell can't keep God's love away" (Romans 
8:38). 


Oh, I'm so deeply grateful. 


-In Jesus' name, Amen

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Out of my Own Desire, Lead me Lord I Pray...

Father, in this new adventure of life I am on with You, help me to not go back to living life 
for my own personal desires. For I know that will be my downfall. Oh it's so easy to give 
into tempations of living a life of pleasure. I don't want to be fooled by that anymore! 


For Jesus said, "If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your 
life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it" (Mark 8:35).

Lord, I give You my life. I give up living selfishly, and instead I ask that You take my life 
experiences and my talent and help me find a way to honor You with it.

-In Jesus' name, Amen

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Deeper Into The Presence of God - Pray!

Father, I want to know You better. I want to be closer. I want to be free from worry and anxiety about my future. I want to trust that You have my best interests in mind, and by sticking close to You and following Your instructions it will all turn out okay.

Your word says, "...he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him. And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask for" (1 John 5:14-15).

Lord, I look forward to experiencing a deeper relationship with You, since I know this request pleases You, I know it will come to pass. I can't wait.

-In Jesus' name, Amen.

Thursday, January 02, 2014

人生最不值得你去做的事 。。。

1、不要把時間浪費在錯誤的人身上。
人生短暫,所以你不該把你的寶貴歲月與壓榨你幸福的人分享。假如別人真的需要你,他們自會騰出一片空間留給你。有的時候我們無須苦苦掙扎,放棄也是種選擇。永遠都不要報希望於老是瞧低你的那個人。而且,要記住:真正的朋友總會在你最需要幫助的時候出現在你的身旁,而那些在你輝煌騰達時結交於你的人卻未必是你真正的朋友。

2、不要逃避問題。直面挫折,挺過去。
但我也知道,這一點都不容易。世界上沒有人能夠做到輕鬆自如地應對每一次困境。沒有人不是經歷了一次又一次的沮喪、難過、傷痛和挫敗才最終解決掉問題的。所以,我們不要急於求成,要一步一步地去解決問題。因為,那才是生活的意義之所在——面對困難、然後耐心地去學習、適應並解決難題。所有這些經歷最終塑造了現在的你。

3、不要欺騙自己。
你大可以欺騙世人,但唯一一個不容許你欺騙的人就是你自己。只有當我們抓住機遇的時候,我們的生活才會有所改善。而要做到這點,第一步便是真誠地對待自己。

4、不要再把自己的需求放到不重要的位置上。
最痛苦的事情莫過於你太愛一個人而忘記了自己也是需要被滿足的。幫助別人是重要的,一點都沒錯,但你同時也要幫助你自己。假如你從未追隨你的激情去做你真正在意的事,那麼現在就你是你開始夢想的時刻。

5、不要再幻想成為那個“不是你自己”的你。
人生的一大挑戰就是埋葬真實的自己並渴望著自己能成為其他的人。總有人比你漂亮、也總有人比你聰明、比你年輕的人更多得是,但是他們都不是你。不要成為其他人,而是要做自己,這樣人們就會喜歡你。而且那個對的人只愛真實的你。

6、不要活在過去。
假如你老是沉淪在過去的陰影中,你也就無法開始新的人生。

7、不要害怕犯錯誤。
勇敢去嘗試,即使犯了一些錯誤,也要比什麼事也不做強吧!每一次成功都要經歷過失敗的洗禮,每一次失敗都會送你走上成功的殿堂。到最後,令你感到悔恨不已的不是你做過的事,而是那些你從未做過的事。

8、不要再責備自己所犯的那些錯誤。
我們或許會愛錯人、或許會為不值得的事痛哭流涕,但有一點是確信無疑的,那就是錯誤能幫助我們找到對的那個人,也能讓我們下次做得更好。有誰不犯錯呢?我們都有過痛苦的經歷,也曾為了一點往事而懊悔不已。但是,你不能把你自己和你所犯的那些錯誤畫上等號,你也不能把你自己與你所經歷種種痛苦經歷等同看待,你只活在此時此刻,而且你也有能力讓今天變得與眾不同,你還有能力開創美好的未來。你人生所經歷每一件事情都為未來的某個時刻埋好了伏筆。

9、不要嘗試去購買幸福。
我們朝思暮想的東西有許多,且是非常昂貴的。但真正能讓我們滿意的卻都是免費的,如愛、歡笑和追隨激情的腳步。

10、不要專從他人身上獲取幸福。
假如你對自己都不感到滿意的話,那麼從長遠的角度來講,無論你和誰相處你都不會感到快樂。所以在你開始與他人分享你的人生之前,你要做的就是要讓內在的自己變得美好。

11、不要再猶豫不決了。
不要總是思前顧後,否則你就給帶來了根本就不存在的問題。先分析情況,然後果斷地採取行動。你無法改變你不想面對的現實。取得進展就意味著承擔風險。不邁出第一步,你就無法走出第二步,生活就是這樣的。

12、不要再認為自己還未做好準備。
當機遇出現時,沒有人是做足了100%的準備的。人生中的大多數機遇都需要我們跨出自己的舒適區才能不錯過它們,這就意味著在一開始的時候我們總會感到有點不太適應。

13、不要盲目地開始一段新感情。
戀情需得謹慎選擇。我們寧可獨處也不願與不適合的人交往。沒多大必要著急的。假如一件事是註定發生的話,那它一定會發生的——在對的時間,在緣分的牽引下與對的人相遇。

14、不要因為舊戀情的夭折而拒絕開始一段新感情。
人生會讓你明白你與任何人的一次邂逅都有其存在的意義。有時是對你的一次考驗,有時是對你的一次利用,有時是對你的一次教誨。但最重要的一點就是,有些人會讓你的光芒釋放出來。

15、不要再拿自己與別人作比較了。
不要擔心別人做的比你更好。你要做的就是每天都要進步,不斷超越自己。成功只是你與你自己之間的一場戰役。

16、不要嫉妒別人。
嫉妒其實就是在計數別人的幸福卻忽視了自己的幸福。你應當這樣想:“我擁有哪些令別人羨慕不已的東西呢?”

17、不要再抱怨自己,也不要內疚。
人生中的挫折都是有其存在的意義的,它們讓你重新步入人生的正軌。或許你還無法理解這些事情發生的原因,或許它們對你來說是痛苦難熬的。但是,當你回過頭去審視這些負面的事件時,你會發現它們最終會讓你變得更出色。所以,你要笑著面對人生中的困境。你要讓別人都看到今天的你要比昨天的你更強,而且明天的你會變得更強。

18、不要記仇。
不要讓仇恨寄居在你心中。如果是這樣的話,最終你給你自己帶來的傷害要遠遠多出別人所帶給你的傷害。原諒不是說“我不介意你曾今給我帶來的傷害”,而是要說,“我不會讓你的所作所為毀掉我今後的幸福生活。”寬恕是問題的答案——放手過去、找到內心的平靜、最後解放自己!而且,你要記住寬恕不是針對別人的,而是針對你自己的。如有必要,你需原諒自己,然後繼續人生的腳步並在下一回做得更好。

19、不要埋怨別人。
你是否能實現自己的夢想在很大程度上就取決於你是否對自己負責。當你把自己所面對困境都歸咎於別人時,你也就是在逃避責任——不是別人而是你自己才能改變自己的人生。

20、不要把時間浪費在向別人解釋你自己上。
你的朋友不需要你作任何解釋也能理解你,而你的敵人永遠都不會相信你說的話。所有,你的內心告訴你什麼事是正確的,那就去做吧。

21、不要忙得連休息時間都被你給忽略過去了。
當你覺得自己忙不過來的時候,停下來做一下深呼吸。假如你繼續做你一直再做的事,你只會不停地得到你早已得到的東西。有的時候,你需停下來,好讓自己看得更清楚。

22、不要低估了小細節的美妙之處。
欣賞那些微不足道的事,因為或許某天當你回望人生時,你會發現它們是無比重要的事。你人生中最美妙的組成部分便是由那些零零碎碎的片段串聯而成的,一如你對某人投去的一抹微笑。

23、不要追求事事完美。MoneyHome.com
現實世界不偏愛完美主義者,它只回報那些最終能夠完成任務的人。

24、不要走阻力最小的人生道路。
人生不易,尤其是當你有了一個偉大的夢想的時候,你將來會遭遇到的困難會更大、更多。不要去做沒有挑戰性的事,去做些一鳴驚人的事吧。

25、不要假裝一切都很順利。
感到挫敗或灰心喪氣是很正常的一件事。你不必假裝自己很堅強,而且你根本就沒有必要向別人證明一切都如我所願。你也不用太在意別人是怎麼看待你的,想哭就哭吧,流淚也有益於你的健康。越快釋放壓抑的情緒,快樂就會越快降臨。


其實誰也不至於活得一無是處,誰也不能活得了無遺憾。
一個人不必太在乎自己的平凡,平凡可以使生命更加真實;
一個人不必太在乎未來會如何,只要我們努力,未來一定不會讓我們失望;
一個人不必太在乎別人如何看自己,只要自己堂堂正正,別人一定會對我們尊重;
一個人不必太在乎得失,人生本來就是得得失失。

(来源:CMoneyHome.com)

Wednesday, January 01, 2014

God's Questions? 上帝的10大问题?

God's 10 big questions:
1, God will not ask what kind of car you drove, He'll ask how many carry no transport people.

2, God will not ask how much your house, He'll ask how many people you invite to your home.

3, God will not ask you how many clothes closet once, he will ask you how many donate clothing to people in need.

4, God will not ask you how rich income, he will ask you whether it is ill-gotten gains.

5, God will not ask what your title is, he will ask you if you have a best effort at work.

6, God will not ask how many friends you have, he would ask how many people you are friends.

7, God will not ask what neighborhood you lived, He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

8, God will not ask your complexion, he will ask for your personality.

9, God will not ask how you spend so long looking for salvation, he will lovingly take will lead you to heaven, but not to the gates of hell.

10, God will not ask you to forward this to many people, he already knows your decision.

Think about it =)

上帝的10大问题:
1、上帝不会问你开的是哪种车,他会问你搭载过多少没有交通工具的人。

2、上帝不会问你的房子有多大,他会问你邀请过多少人去你家。

3、上帝不会问你衣柜里曾经有多少衣服,他会问你捐过多少衣物给需要的人。

4、上帝不会问你收入有多丰富,他会问你是否为不义之财。

5、上帝不会问你的头衔是什么,他会问你是否在工作上有尽力而为。

6、上帝不会问你有多少朋友,他会问你是多少人的朋友。

7、上帝不会问你住在哪个社区,他会问你是如何对待左邻右舍的。

8、上帝不会问你的肤色,他会问你的人格特质。

9、上帝不会问你怎么花那么长的时间在寻找救赎,他会慈祥地将将你引领到天上的家,而不是把你推向地狱之门。

10、上帝不需要问你会将这个信息传给多少人,他早已知道你的决定。

想想吧=)

Happy New Year 2014 !!!

Happy New Year 2014!!!
This year will be more and more about You! =) 

Ask, Seek, Knock
In Matthew 7:7-8
7 Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
8 For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds: and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. 

May this year will be a year that full of testimonies to be heard and shared. 
Time flies....
All the times, we choose to busy to accomplish the things in the earth and
  we forgot to give time to maintain a strong relationship with each other. 
Let's make the effort to meet up with people that we appreciate in life.

Live with Boldness ^^



Friday, November 15, 2013

Just Simple Beautiful ^^

I met a Beautiful Elephant ^^

Something Beautiful Is Because it is Colorful ^^
Just That Simple Beautiful ^^

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

What would you think? =')

Would Paul have said, "God won't give you more than you can handle"? 

See what he says in 2 Cor. 1:8-9 "...We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability 
to endure, and we thought we would never live through it...but as a result, we learned not 
to rely on ourselves, but on God who can raise the dead."

What do you think?

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Thank you God!


Father, forgive us for trying to plan and push our own agenda over our lives. Today, God, 
help us to relent and allow You to lead us, to provide for us, to give us a life better than we 
could possibly imagine.


For Your word says: "This God—his way is perfect; the promise of the Lord proves true; he
 is a shield for all who take refuge in him." (Psalm 18:30)


Oh Lord, instead of running out front leading, I sit here and ask that You hold me, I take 
refuge in You, help me to feel Your protective shield around me. 


In Jesus' name, Amen.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

I pray for You to heal our broken relationships...


Father, today I pray for You to heal our broken relationships. Please remove any feelings of 

resentment and bitterness towards others. Even if we feel it is warranted, God. After all, 

You don't treat us that way. 


If our relationships are in turmoil God, remind us that we can choose to be a part of the 

chaos, or be Your instrument of Peace. Oh Lord, help us, with the toughest person in our 

lives, to love them, not criticize them, to be at peace with them. -In Jesus name, Amen


Saturday, October 12, 2013

Let there be joy in our hearts =)


(Chorus)
Let there be praise
Let there be joy in our hearts
Sing to the Lord
Give Him the glory
Let there be praise
Let there be joy in our hearts
Forevermore
Let His love fill the air
And let there be praise

He inhabits the praise of His people
And dwells deep within
The peace that He gives none can equal
He love, it knows no end
So lift your voices
With gladness sing
Proclaim through all the earth
That Jesus Christ our King

When the Spirit of God is within us
We will overcome
In our weakness, His strength will defend us
When His praise is on our tongue
So lift your voices
With gladness sing
Proclaim through all the earth
That Jesus Christ our King

Let there be praise
Let there be joy in our hearts
Sing to the Lord
Give him the glory
GIVE HIM THE GLORY
Let there be praise
Let there be praise
Let there be paise!!!!!!!!!

May the song gives you the joy in worshiping the Lord =)